Draw a square with 16 boxes like this.
I will predict your answer. Draw a circle around any number. Now draw a circle around any other number except not in the same row or column. Good. Now do it again with the same restriction. Finally, do it again with the same restriction. You now have 4 numbers circled. Now add them up. I predict your answer is 34!
Simple. It’s a mathematical formula. Play it up strong on your friends with you as a mind reader. The ebooks presented to you work in the same way except there are emotional formulas and principles to follow instead of one’s belief system or opinions that no longer work for us. Are you driving your car looking through the rear view mirror?